Joy, fear, bliss, sadness. All of these feelings come and go in our lives at one point or another. The key, is how does one react to the temporary feelings? We can feed into them, or we can react differently. But, being the flawed humans we are, it is not an easy task. What I have found, however, has brought me some type of peace in all situations.
Life is filled with uncertainty. This is something I am sure of. Everything is impermanent. It is in motion, constantly changing. Our cells regenerate, thus, we are literally NOT the same person we were five minutes ago.
Being that life is temporary, how do the reactions of ourselves to emotions affect us? We can be like the ocean, ebb and flow with the waves of life. As I have stated in a previous post, who knows what is good and what is bad? The feelings of life that can consume us in the moment, it is best t remember that it is temporary. The feelings of sadness, grief, and pain will always pass. The feelings of joy, bliss, happiness, and love will also pass. But what we decide to do with them is up to us. We can cling to the memories and moments that brought us joy. Even though we try to forget the feelings and moments of pain, we also should hold onto them. The moments that have tested our very being are what help to grow us. Yet, it is also temporary!
What about you? Do you believe that the feelings of life are temporary? Certain feelings and moments stay with us. Our choice to hold on to the anger or sadness is what we can make. Do you hold onto moments, or have you accepted them and moved on? Life is a journey and each walk our own path. But, we do not ever walk alone, because of friends.