Looking out my window, I am greeted by an old Oak tree. It has been here for years, this I am certain. The stories it could tell, the people it has seen, are more than I can fathom. This tree has withstood the brutal Minnesota winters. It has seen harsh windstorms and straight-line winds. It has handled a vehicle running into it, horses, and everything else life has thrown at it. But through it all, it still stands strong.
The reason for the strength of this incredibly old tree: its roots. These roots must travel many feet into the ground, through a complex network. It is able to take a firm hold, without given away. The roots can be intertwined with one another, yet separate in their identity.
For me, my roots run deep. Yes, I have my beginning with my parents. But from there, my roots have been mine to grow. I have a small, yet close extended family. While we may be hundreds of miles apart, we are also close together. Another factor for my roots can be found within my friends. I have made friends who have lasted a lifetime. Some came into my life through work, some from being a mom, and some from happen-stance. But, what does it mean to have roots?
Personally, it means I know that I have a solid foundation on which to stand. Regardless of what I need, I know that they will be there. If I did not have roots, how would I know who I am? I guess that is the universal question we are all trying to answer. So, who am I?
I am a mother, wife, daughter, friend, and a unique individual. I know that I love cupcakes more than cake. I know that I have a belief in something higher than myself, yet have not decided what it is. I know that I feel all life is sacred. I have a respect for those who are older than myself. For their life experiences and wisdom is something I can always learn from. I know that I have work to do to improve and be a better version of myself. I know that when the struggle is hard, my roots will bring me towards the right decision. They also allow for me to know and trust myself.
How about you? Do you value your roots run deep? Do you know where the foundation of your being lies?